EFT – Energy Healing

One of my clients had a disturbing childhood. Her step-father who was the only father figure she knew, molested her as a child. It took a few sessions to find this out since she had hidden this even from her own concious ego to protect herself. She had been frequently beaten throughout her life by her parents. In her mind, it seemed that love was when someone hurt you.

This script can be used as a guide. If other conversations come up then follow that path until the intensity is a 0. Return to the script to check-in with each of the lines to insure they are a zero level of intensity.

The script went something like:
Even though I was molested by my father I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I was ashamed because I was molested by the only father I know…
Even though I’m hurt that he molested me…
Even though I carry this pain and guilt inside me because of it…
Even though I’m so sad that he molested me…
Even though I thought it was because he loved me…
Even though I stayed still like a good girl ….
Even though I thought this is what love looks like…
Even though I feel so ashamed that I let this happen…
Even though I should’ve known better…
Even though I’d be so embarrassed if anyone ever found out…
Even though I feel so naive and stupid…
Even though I thought I believed him when he said I was special and that’s why we have this alone time…
Even though I feel like such a loser for believing him…
Even though I was taken advantage of…
Even though everyone takes advantage of me…
Even though I was used and abused…
Even though everyone uses me…
Even though I’m annoyed at myself for getting myself into that life situation…

At the end of such significant issues being tapped on, it’s a great idea to tap for positivity with something like:
Thank-you God for releasing all this negativity in my life.
I am grateful for being free of this burden
I choose to release all these fears and worries I have about this memory.

God Bless.