by Rossanne in October 11, 2010 · Filed under Traumatic Memories · TaggedDad doesn't love me, family love, I don't feel loved, lack of feeling loved, Mum doesn't love me
Ever felt like your family doesn’t love you?
Mum doesn’t love me…Dad doesn’t love me…My sister doesn’t love me…
Actually, everybody carries this feeling but doesn’t recognise it.
The sooner it is recognised the sooner it can be worked on. The sooner people heal this aspect the sooner love in abundance flow into their lives.
It’s ideal to focus on one person in your family at a time. Start with your mum then dad and visualise yourself as a child and imagine you are tapping on that child. This gets your subconcious healing the inner child within that is holding on to these feelings.
Think of memories and incidents where you feel your mum didn’t love you or give you the attention you deserve. Mum’s are the centre of our childhood up to 7yrs old. Then do your dad. Dad’s become our centre of attention from 7-14yrs so again visualise this period with moments when you felt your dad did not love you.
When you feel love flowing for and from your mum and dad then work on siblings.
I’ve followed this procedure and it’s worked beautifully for me =)
Because love is universal, when you get present once again to God’s abundant love, which you will feel when you’ve take this journey, then you will find the love between you and your family is healed and they will give you more love. Your memories will become more about all the times your family have loved you and you start to forget the times when they treated you so badly and discriminated against you. It’s like those memories don’t bother you anymore. The bonds that keep them apart from you will be broken.
by Rossanne in November 29, 2009 · Filed under Physical Issues · Taggedbody dictionary, core issues, EFT, emotional issues, energy blocks, Louise Hay, Physical Issues, tapping
I stumbled across a free pdf that was available online called “Heal Your Body” by Louise Hay. It had the most insightful things in it about your body. It basically is a dictionary for any ailment in your body and how that relates emotionally to energies that are out of alignment.
I highly recommend this book. I have since bought “You can heal your life” too. She offers affirmations that can be said to replace the negative emotion causing the block in the body’s energy system.
Even bites, scratches, aches and pulls all have an emotional correlation. Usually to do with letting go of an old issue or forgiveness of yourself or others.
Now when I want to tap on a physical issue I can more quickly identify the core emotional issue by using Louise Hay’s “body dictionary”. I will keep you posted on my progress 
by Rossanne in November 13, 2009 · Filed under Physical Issues · Taggedanger, blame, diabetes, EFT, tapping
I recently had a client bring her father to me about his diabetes.
She was worried he needed to reduce his blood sugar and heart pressure otherwise he would find himself in dialysis in two months. Unfortunately, he was not motivated to do anything.
I asked him how he felt about his diabetes but he did not give a direct answer. He started talking about how his children keep nagging him to take his pills and go for walks and to eat better. When I asked him again how did he feel about it, he again replied that – his kids tell him he has diabetes.
I figured we needed to start with him accepting that he has diabetes and the ownership for it was with him. So we began…
Even though I have this diabetes, I deeply and completely accept myself.
After 3 rounds he checked in and found:
Even though I hate this diabetes…
Even tough I’m angry I have diabetes…
He then found he needed things to blame for having diabetes:
Even though it’s my kids fault I have diabetes…
Even though I’m fat because I couldn’t be active once I had kids…
Even though they made me fat…
Even though I’m angry at them for making me so fat…
After this tapping, he realised that he had made himself fat and that the diabetes was because of a lack of self-care, not because of his children. At this point we began to address issues of self-worth and confidence that had caused a lack of self-care in the first instance.
by Rossanne in October 20, 2009 · Filed under Traumatic Memories · TaggedEFT, guilt, love, molested, sexual abuse, step-father, tapping
One of my clients had a disturbing childhood. Her step-father who was the only father figure she knew, molested her as a child. It took a few sessions to find this out since she had hidden this even from her own concious ego to protect herself. She had been frequently beaten throughout her life by her parents. In her mind, it seemed that love was when someone hurt you.
This script can be used as a guide. If other conversations come up then follow that path until the intensity is a 0. Return to the script to check-in with each of the lines to insure they are a zero level of intensity.
The script went something like:
Even though I was molested by my father I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I was ashamed because I was molested by the only father I know…
Even though I’m hurt that he molested me…
Even though I carry this pain and guilt inside me because of it…
Even though I’m so sad that he molested me…
Even though I thought it was because he loved me…
Even though I stayed still like a good girl ….
Even though I thought this is what love looks like…
Even though I feel so ashamed that I let this happen…
Even though I should’ve known better…
Even though I’d be so embarrassed if anyone ever found out…
Even though I feel so naive and stupid…
Even though I thought I believed him when he said I was special and that’s why we have this alone time…
Even though I feel like such a loser for believing him…
Even though I was taken advantage of…
Even though everyone takes advantage of me…
Even though I was used and abused…
Even though everyone uses me…
Even though I’m annoyed at myself for getting myself into that life situation…
At the end of such significant issues being tapped on, it’s a great idea to tap for positivity with something like:
Thank-you God for releasing all this negativity in my life.
I am grateful for being free of this burden
I choose to release all these fears and worries I have about this memory.
God Bless.